When you go back a few generations, retirement was defined as “a period of time when you are too sick to work, but too well to die”. No matter how much we run away from it, there will be a period in our lives when we must go on pension, approaching it right makes it a time devoid of tension. The dictionary definition of retirement is something like, "to withdraw, ask for rest or shelter; to go to bed; to fall back; to retreat.

I started piano lessons at 52, and kept it up for two years, as I thought I would be a good model for Lily and Jack. Retirement offers the perfect opportunity to dedicate your time and skills to meaningful causes, leaving a legacy of compassion and contributing to the greater good. Whether it’s discovering new destinations, revisiting cherished places, or embarking on epic adventures, retirement allows you the freedom to satisfy your wanderlust and create a lifetime of unforgettable travel memories.

The danger is that one may have heard these things about pension from family and friends repeatedly that it may have been deeply internalized, ultimately affecting one’s sense of retirement planning.

From being concerned about your 401K to worrying if Special K is still in the pantry — you’ve come a long way. Adding some appropriate humor where folks are laughing with everyone and not at anyone can be great when done well.With no work-related constraints, retirement allows you to explore the world entirely, try new activities, and embark on thrilling adventures, making each day a new chapter in your life’s journey.